Dear Birth Parents,
We're so excited you've decided to visit our profile We are humbled beyond belief by the process and miracle of adoption. We, by no means, understand what you are going through, but we do sympathize and know that this time in your life is a difficult and confusing one. We pray for you. We hope the best for you -- no matter your choice. We know that our Heavenly Father loves all of us and because of the Atonement, has seen and felt what you are feeling now. We have great respect for you and your brave decision of adoption. We hope you will take a few minutes to get to know us a little better. And even if we are not the family for you, we wish you peace in your decision and a blessed life for your child.
We met through a mutual friend while Lyle was in school. After six months of exchanging emails and phone calls, we had our first date. We were married a year later and have completely enjoyed every minute of marriage. Even in struggles, we’ve found more strength and have grown closer together. We are not only marriage partners, but also best friends. We cherish doing even the smallest things together like going grocery shopping or playing games. We communicate well with each other; whether it be a deep spiritual conversation or discussing a friendly sports rivalry. We love to make each other laugh. While we have found immense fulfilment in our marriage, we have always felt a strong desire to share our love with a child of our Heavenly Father.
Janie is one of the most compassionate women you’ll ever meet. She has a huge heart and would do anything for someone in need. She’s demonstrated this compassion in our marriage, in dealing with extended family members, and in her church callings. She brings a unique point of view into my life with her differences, allowing us to use these differences to strengthen one another, rather than let them hinder our relationship. For example, I enjoy discussing the gospel with her and listening to her perspectives as a convert to the church. I love her greatly and feel that any child would be blessed to have her as a mother.
Lyle has been a true blessing in my life. Of all the roads I’ve been down in my life, I wouldn’t change a thing because it led me to this wonderful man. Lyle is a calm soul and a peacemaker. He is patient and understanding in all his relationships and dealings with work and the community. Family is his most important priority – that is, after his relationship with our Heavenly Father. His gentle love has encouraged me in times of need, in times of sorrow, and in times of happiness. Lyle is my biggest fan – he encourages me in my talents and he is the person I most have fun with. He is truly my best friend in every sense of the word.
When we found out we were unable to have children; we searched and prayed and were led to the decision to adopt with much peace in our hearts. In friendships and family relationships, we’ve seen first hand the various aspects of adoption. We know that for an adoption to be successful, it requires much prayer and guidance of the Spirit as well as sacrifice; although we realize that we may never understand the amount of love and sacrifice you’ve made on behalf of your child. Thank you again for taking the time to get to know us a little better. We pray that the spirit of peace will be with you all along the way.
With Love,
Lyle and Janie
